Why Traditions?

Traditions. I've talked about them once before back in June 2010. They are fascinating. Traditions can truly shape a family.

Donald L. Hallstorm said: "Traditions, established patterns of behavior transmitted from generation to generation, are an inherent part of culture. Our culture and its related traditions help establish our sense of identity and fill the vital human need to belong" (Cultivate Righteous Traditions).

The traditions can be positive or negative. If there are traditions that lead a family further away from the path of happiness those are bad. Then there are those traditions that can lead a family on the path of happiness.

When a new couple come together to form a new family, they should decide what traditions they wish to have. Have a reason for each tradition.

Think about Christmas. Do you open present(s) on Christmas Eve? Do you have a big Christmas dinner? On Christmas Eve or Christmas Day? Do you give away a present? Do you go Christmas caroling? Why do you or don't you choose to have those traditions? What do they teach your family?

When you think of what traditions you want in your family, think about what you want for your family. You might want a family that is service oriented, that has Charity for everyone. Perhaps a family that loves to read. Or a family that spends time together and can turn to each other for support. Maybe you may want a family that values music. A family that values work. A family that values developing skills.

What traditions would best serve your goals for a family? If you want a family that is service oriented, then traditions that involve serving should be created. If you want a family that values music, then come up with traditions that encourage it within your family. Perhaps you sing to your children every night. Or you play music while doing chores. Or you just always have music on and encourage musical presentations. Or some such.

Traditions. They are vital to help your family become what you wish them to be.


Here are some articles on traditions:
"Righteous Traditions" by Cheryl C. Lant
"The Traditions of Their Fathers" by James T. Duke
"Traditions Worth Keeping"