Mosiah 10

The Lamanites have traditions that have caused them to hate the Nephities. In my Marriage and Family Studies classes, we've talked about the importance of righteous traditions. When families have traditions that are not righteous they could be rather detrimental to the family members. In the Book of Mormon Institute Manuel it speaks of Elder Richard G. Scott who taught what we should do when a family or cultural tradition conflicts with God’s plan or standards. He counseled us to carefully examine our lives to determine what traditions may differ from the teachings of the Lord:

“Your Heavenly Father assigned you to be born into a specific lineage from which you received your inheritance of race, culture, and traditions. That lineage can provide a rich heritage and great reasons to rejoice. Yet you have the responsibility to determine if there is any part of that heritage that must be discarded because it works against the Lord’s plan of happiness. 

“You may ask how can one determine when a tradition is in conflict with the teachings of the Lord and should be abandoned? That is not easily done. I have found how difficult it is as I work to overcome some of my own incorrect traditions. . . . Customs and traditions become an inherent part of us. They are not easy to evaluate objectively. Carefully study the scriptures and counsel of the prophets to understand how the Lord wants you to live. Then evaluate each part of your life and make any adjustments needed. Seek help from another you respect who has been able to set aside some deeply held convictions or traditions that are not in harmony with the Lord’s plan. . . . 

“Is yours a culture where the husband exerts a domineering, authoritarian role, making all of the important decisions for the family? That pattern needs to be tempered so that both husband and wife act as equal partners, making decisions in unity for themselves and their family. . . . 

“These are other traditions that should be set aside—any aspect of heritage: 

“That would violate the Word of Wisdom. 

“That is based on forcing others to comply by the power of station often determined by heredity. 

“That encourages the establishment of caste systems. 

“That breeds conflict with other cultures” (in Conference Report, Apr. 1998, 112–13; or Ensign, May 1998, 86).